feat: Operate website proxy config

[moeshin]

What this PR does / why we need it?

当反代配置不是常规配置的情况下，会出现无法暂停、删除的问题。
这主要是接口入参校验导致的。

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新增一个操作接口，只传必要的值。

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[HynoR]

拆开这个operate接口的想法很好，不过拆成两个接口operate 和 update 很容易混淆，这个接口本来就难读，虽然解决了问题但是后面开发的时候读这段挺容易迷惑的。

个人感觉如果要改最好彻底点。要么不拆接口。把dto 里的字段去掉required 标签，然后通过service代码手动判断拦截或者屏蔽来分类会不会更精简？

或者如果要拆接口，做绝一点直接一个操作一个接口来分割职责，然后每个接口用自己的规范dto。

仅本人意见，这种拆一半来解决问题的方法不是很好

[zhengkunwang223]

delete 和 enable/disable 接口分开写会更好一些
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