feat: add Apple Silicon (M1/M2/M3) support - Update Dockerfiles for A…

[sangwaboi]

This PR adds support for Apple Silicon (M1/M2/M3) Macs by:

• Updating Dockerfiles to use python:3.8-slim base image for better ARM64 compatibility
• Adding build dependencies for gevent and other packages
• Pinning gevent to version 22.10.2 for Python 3.8 compatibility
• Updating docker-compose.dev.yml to use named volumes instead of host mounts
• Fixing platform-specific build issues for ARM64 architecture

Changes have been tested on:

• M3 Pro Macbook Pro (ARM64)
• Verified backward compatibility with existing AMD64 setup

Key improvements:

1. Platform Detection: Improved detection of architecture for Docker builds
2. Multi-arch Support: Using python:3.8-slim for ARM64 and AMD64
3. Backward Compatibility: Maintained support for AMD64 users
4. Performance: Enabled native ARM64 builds on Apple Silicon without emulation

Done/Closes #681

[sangwaboi]

@YoungHypo
Could you please review this PR? It implements Apple Silicon support as discussed in #681. The changes have been tested on M3 Pro and maintain backward compatibility with AMD64 as well.

Key points for review:

1. Dockerfile changes for ARM64 compatibility
2. Volume handling in docker-compose
3. Build dependency updates

[yeasy]

To make the CI happen, please help sign-off the commit following https://github.com/hyperledger-cello/cello/wiki/Contribution-Process.

[sangwaboi]

@yeasy, I've addressed the DCO requirements. The PR is now compliant with the Hyperledger contribution process. Thank you for the guidance!

[sangwaboi]

@YoungHypo could you please review this PR ..