tools: make v8.nix more stable

[aduh95]

If we only pass to the V8 builders the dependencies it actually needs, we can avoid rebuilding the same version of V8 just because an unrelated Node.js dependency has been updated.
It also fixes an oversight of the current version which would fail to build if any of the shared lib is disabled.

[nodejs-github-bot]

Review requested:

• @nodejs/gyp
• @nodejs/security-wg

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 88.83%. Comparing base (cd391b5) to head (731953b).
⚠️ Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   89.71%   88.83%   -0.88%     
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  Files         694      694              
  Lines      214245   214245              
  Branches    41119    41027      -92     
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- Hits       192211   190331    -1880     
- Misses      14109    15929    +1820     
- Partials     7925     7985      +60     

see 103 files with indirect coverage changes

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